In making decisions, it helps to know your values.
Dr. Brené Brown says that in her research, there is a maximum of two core values that can motivate our actions. In Daring Leadership, she guides the reader through narrowing down a long list of values to the two that truly animate us.
If I know someone facing a significant decision, I try to help them probe those values. Do you value growth? Or are you animated by income? Do you value creativity or consistency? Do you want to start in a small pond or be challenged in a big ocean?
Know what you value and the decision is clear.