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I tend to flip between two ways of ordering my to-do lists. Method #1 is to put yourself first. Make sure those big projects you need to complete are at the top of your list, and don’t do anything until you do them. Method #2 is to put yourself last. […]
I don’t want to write. I don’t want to practice. I don’t want to do the dishes, make bread, walk the dog. I want to have done them. I want to live in the future in which I’ve done those things. Because I like the outcomes brought about by doing […]
Be flexible with your expectations, so that students can try as many activities as interest them. Offer retakes on all tests and quizzes. “If they haven’t learned, you haven’t taught,” so let them keep proving that they’ve learned, as many times as they care to. Help them get back up […]
I am a firm believer in offering grace for our students. Grace for their struggle, grace for their growth. Here’s why. I want my students to bite off more than they can chew. I know they won’t know their limits until they blow past them, and when they figure out […]
A good definition of maturity might be: choosing to ignore your first impulses for others’ sake. Maturity is choosing to stay quiet in rehearsal when another section is rehearsing, because your impulse to talk would undermine the other section. Maturity is choosing to practice rather than to look for Pokémon […]
I’ve listened to a lot of music. Like, a lot. But there’s still vast amounts of amazing music I have never listened to. There’s simply not time. When someone seems affronted that I haven’t gotten around to hearing their favorite music, or music held in high regard, I can feel […]
My son loves Scouting – he’s passionate and committed. But he also knows that his forward motion slows down every few months. It’s a natural cycle of the type we all go through in any activity. When he noticed that he always gets reenergized after participating in certain optional events […]
I often encourage the Aces to adopt a 5×5 practice regimen outside of rehearsal. (5 minutes/day, 5 days/week). The problem is that often, the group members end up carrying tremendous individual guilt around failure to meet that modest goal. The guilt can lead to avoidance, creating a vicious cycle of […]
Change isn’t always bad, and we’re often bad at separating the positivity of the change from our resistance to it. The road to my kids’ middle school is full of truly unbearable pot holes and shoddy repairs. I should say was. The road has recently been repaved. My first time […]
I tried a new activity at this year’s retreat, and I’m keeping it. Two Minute Talents! Each singer brought some small talent or trick (think “Stupid Human Tricks”) that could be performed in two minutes or less. It was raucous fun – laughter, silliness, and impressive, all at once! It […]