I’ve listened to a lot of music. Like, a lot.
But there’s still vast amounts of amazing music I have never listened to. There’s simply not time.
When someone seems affronted that I haven’t gotten around to hearing their favorite music, or music held in high regard, I can feel embarrassed at my failure. Then I remember the above.
If I can, I thank them for their recommendation, and try to check it out as soon as I can.
And if I’m on the other side? If I discover someone I care about hasn’t heard something I value deeply, I remind myself to count myself lucky.
I’m the one who gets to introduce them to this beautiful music. What a privilege.
Meanwhile, I’ll keep listening. Keep discovering. What haven’t I heard yet?