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My 10-year-old is a music-learning machine. He’s been at the piano every day for a long time, building an ever-long medley of songs including movie themes, Beatles songs, and more. The thing is, I think that a lot of kids are music-learning machines. The difference is my son has consistent […]

Game

“I’m game!” It’s a more nuanced statement than, “I want to do [X].” “I’m game” comes with implications. It might mean: I’m not familiar with whatever is being proposed. I’m open to trying this. This wouldn’t be my own top choice, but I am willing to do it. I trust […]

Disputable

Priya Parker often says that the best gatherings have “a specific, disputable purpose.” That the purpose is disputable is essential to creating meaning, because an indisputable purpose is going to give rise to gatherings where little growth can occur among the participants. If everyone agrees, no one can grow. I […]

Non Sequitur

Children love non sequiturs. Silliness in picture books – even full on absurdism – is accepted and appreciated by five-year-olds. Not so much for kids in their second decade, generally. We generally tend to seek more “realism” in our literature as we age. A five-year-old doesn’t think that being silly […]