Swimming Upstream

It’s hard to go against the current in society. It’s hard to listen to your heart and go in the direction you truly believe is best. Modern American society is great at discouraging individuals from being different. Cultural reinforcement of the norm has never been more pervasive. It’s ironic when […]

The Core Mission

When you’re competent, you get asked to do things. What a flattering experience: to be trusted with a new project, a new job. But saying “yes” to every offer means taking time away from other important activities. The thing to do is look ahead. Where do you want to go? […]

Pianist Choir Directors

I used to marvel at how many outstanding choir directors are also wonderful pianists. Seems a weird coincidence, doesn’t it? Why piano in particular? (As a comparison, I didn’t learn any significant piano skills until college.) It’s no coincidence. And it’s not because you need prodigious piano skills to be a great […]

Be Kind

There are increasing reminders that social media is having a profoundly damaging effect on people prone to depression. It’s profound because it lets them hide so thoroughly behind a facade of happiness. On social media, people don’t see us. They see the part of us we want them to see. […]

Slack in the System

Kindergarteners generate a lot of papers in school. Coloring sheets, pinhole pictures, letter practice, and much more. If they are like mine, they supplement that with reams of printed coloring pages at home. Kindergarteners generate a lot of papers… Let’s be honest: most of this is going into the recycling bin. It’s […]