Generosity

“I work from a hypothesis of generosity with you. If things are not going well, I assume the best I can about your intention and behavior, and I ask you about it.” – Brené Brown, in conversation with Krista Tippett (unedited interview) I find that approaching work, love, and life with this generous mindset […]

Do It Now

Do it now. You are overestimating the stress you will feel when you dig into the work you need to do. You are underestimating the stress of having it hang over you until you start. Do it now. You are overestimating the difficulty of the work. You are are underestimating the great […]

Favorite In The World

What is your favorite pizza place in the world? Chances are, your favorite pizza is excellent, but also tied to fond memories. For example, at dinner tonight, as we discussed this question, I admitted that I have never had a better pizza than the one I had sitting outdoors on the streets […]

Always Plan For a Snow Day

If you don’t plan for a Snow Day, it will come on your final rehearsal before a performance. (This could be any school-canceling calamity, of course.) This is particularly challenging if, like me, you only rehearse once per week. A well-placed Snow Day can wreak havoc on the arc of your preparation. […]

Never Hope For A Snow Day

When you hope or plan for a Snow Day, the best you can get is “met expectations.” The worst is “deeply disappointed.” But when you don’t hope or plan for a Snow Day, the worst you can get is “met expectations.” The best is, “unexpectedly delighted.” If you’re near me […]

Weekly Note

Do you post a weekly note for your students? I remember the long-hand notes posted on the ensemble bulletin board in college – they were so beneficial in helping me focus my own practice, personal goals, perspective on upcoming events, and enhance buy-in to the group. Bulletin boards may be passé, but you already have the […]

Shoveling Fresh Snow

If you shovel your driveway when the snow is fresh, the snow usually comes up easily, leaving clear pavement. If one car drives on it, you’re left with deeply compressed tracks that are near-impossible to clear. Before you express anger to your students, before your temper gets the better of you, remember: expressing anger in […]

Without Risk of Concussion

Football can be a fabulous activity for teaching character, life skills, team-building, perseverance, flexible and reactive thinking, and plenty of other valuable lessons. Every single one can also be taught in choir, without a pervasive risk of traumatic brain injury. Here is a powerful short film of every reported concussion during a game in the 2017-18 […]