Do it now.
You are overestimating the stress you will feel when you dig into the work you need to do.
You are underestimating the stress of having it hang over you until you start.
Do it now.
You are overestimating the difficulty of the work.
You are are underestimating the great feeling of being done.
Do it now.
You are overestimating the need to be “inspired.”
You are underestimating the inspiration that comes from doing.
Do. It. Now.
What is your favorite pizza place in the world?
Chances are, your favorite pizza is excellent, but also tied to fond memories. For example, at dinner tonight, as we discussed this question, I admitted that I have never had a better pizza than the one I had sitting outdoors on the streets of Prague, with my whole family, in 2014. Was it objectively the best pizza I’ve ever eaten? Probably not – but the good feelings associated with it mark it favorably in my mind.
Here’s the point. Of course it’s important to encourage your choirs to make the best music they can possibly make. But above a certain point of excellence, it’s the positive feelings around the experience – the special people you share it with, the fond memories, the funny little stories – that will cement it in your singers’ memories.
Tend to the whole package, not just the musicianship. That’s how to create the world’s best pizza, and how to create lifelong passion and memories in your singers.
If you don’t plan for a Snow Day, it will come on your final rehearsal before a performance.
(This could be any school-canceling calamity, of course.)
This is particularly challenging if, like me, you only rehearse once per week. A well-placed Snow Day can wreak havoc on the arc of your preparation. That’s way it’s always important to plan for it. Assume that on the day of your last rehearsal, there will be a blizzard. With that assumption, how does your preparation change?
A flu outbreak in your ensemble, a water main break, a conductor with strep throat, and on and on: there are so many possible reasons why you’ll cancel that last rehearsal. Make sure when that time comes, you don’t feel the extra weight of deeply needing that rehearsal. Plan for it.
Relatedly, unlike my prediction, my school does have a Snow Day today.
When you hope or plan for a Snow Day, the best you can get is “met expectations.” The worst is “deeply disappointed.”
But when you don’t hope or plan for a Snow Day, the worst you can get is “met expectations.” The best is, “unexpectedly delighted.”
If you’re near me when winter weather is rolling in, you’ll hear me say in no uncertain terms that it will miss us. No chance of a snow day. I truly believe what I’m saying, but I also want to reinforce the idea of not hoping for, planning on, or predicting a Snow Day.
Relatedly, there will not be a Snow Day tomorrow in my district. Count on it.
Do you post a weekly note for your students? I remember the long-hand notes posted on the ensemble bulletin board in college – they were so beneficial in helping me focus my own practice, personal goals, perspective on upcoming events, and enhance buy-in to the group.
Bulletin boards may be passé, but you already have the digital equivalent. Send that weekly note through blackboard, Schoology, or whatever course management system your school use.
Here’s the format I’m currently using for my weekly note for GRCC Shades of Blue:
- Big Picture (short paragraph of text).
- Short overview and/or philosophical perspective
- Quote of the Week.
- List of pieces with group and personal goals for the week.
- Personal Goals
- Group Goals
- Ensemble Business.
I can copy and paste last week’s note, change the language where needed, and create this week’s note in just a few minutes.
On the really, truly busy days – when you feel like you’ve run a marathon before lunch and then the speed picks up, it’s easy to feel as if it’s always this busy. You’re drowning in busy-ness and it will never change.
On those days, it helps me to widen my lens. Take in more scenery – look beyond today, beyond this week. See the full picture. Chances are, your picture will show busy days and less busy days.
With this increase in perspective, it gets easier to dig in and power through the really busy days. I know they won’t last forever.
If you shovel your driveway when the snow is fresh, the snow usually comes up easily, leaving clear pavement.
If one car drives on it, you’re left with deeply compressed tracks that are near-impossible to clear.
Before you express anger to your students, before your temper gets the better of you, remember: expressing anger in class is driving a car over fresh snow. Once you’ve done it, you’ll never get back the pristine, open spirits you had before.
It might be necessary, on occasion. But then again, with planning, it might not be.
Football can be a fabulous activity for teaching character, life skills, team-building, perseverance, flexible and reactive thinking, and plenty of other valuable lessons.
Every single one can also be taught in choir, without a pervasive risk of traumatic brain injury.
Here is a powerful short film of every reported concussion during a game in the 2017-18 NFL Season.
According to The Intercept, the NFL diagnosed at least 281 traumatic brain injuries this season. And according to this rundown of statistics, for every one of those, there were more than 500 diagnosed concussions in high school football players in the same time frame. That is more than 140,000 traumatic brain injuries.
A new job comes with new arcs. When you know the arcs, you know when the busy time is, and when you ease up for a minute and coast.
But with a new job, you don’t know the arcs. You have to stay constantly alert to anticipate them, or risk falling behind.
It’s one of many reasons I often say this about a new job: the best thing about the first year is the second year.
New arcs, though, can be beneficial, too. They can shake us up from our routines, help us see our patterns in a new context.
I run four times a week – or try to.
But every run this week I’ve had trouble getting out the door. Lots to do perhaps, or maybe just the cold. And then this morning, clear as day, I heard a still small voice say, “You can’t do it.”
I did run today, and got all four runs this week. But it served as an important reminder that the negative voice is always there, and I don’t always hear it as a voice. I can internalize its message without realizing that it isn’t always speaking truth.
Do you hear your doubts? Do you internalize them as truth instead of opinions?
Next time I have trouble running, I’m going to remember that voice is there, and isn’t speaking truth. And with persistence I will identify and ignore the negative voice in any number of other situations.